- What are the messages you received at home about “the other”? Were you encouraged to get to know them? Or were you taught to distrust or ignore them?
- Did you grow up in a neighborhood that was primarily racially, ethnically, economically, religiously homogenous? Or did you grow up in a mixed neighborhood, as you see it?
- Today, are you more likely to emphasize how others are similar to you, or how you may be different?
- What has been your experience when you’re in the minority, vs. when you’re in the majority?
Esther Perel
http://www.estherperel.com/how-to-address-cross-cultural-differences/