marți, 31 ianuarie 2017

The Little Book of Hygge






Închideți ochii și amintiți-vă când a fost ultima dată când v-ați simțit fericiți...
Veți ști că ați găsit răspunsul când simțiți cum vă înflorește un zâmbet senin pe chip :) 


Close your eyes and remember the last time you felt really happy...
You know you found the answear when a peaceful smile lights your face :)





Sunt șanse mari ca amintirea să aibă legătură cu elementele din imaginea de mai jos:
Chances are your memory will have something to to with the following:

O cărticică minunată despre cum să trăim bine. A wonderfull little book about living well.

sâmbătă, 7 ianuarie 2017

Excluderea alternativelor

 Pentru fiecare ”da” trebuie să existe un ”nu”.

Image result for crossroads

”Maturitatea și curajul înseamnă în bună parte capacitatea de a renunța la una din alternative, iar o bună parte a înțelepciunii este dată de capacitatea de a găsi noi căi care ne vor da posibilitatea de a renunța cât mai puțin.” Wheelis- Will and Psychoanalysis

luni, 19 decembrie 2016

...they do not see...

When I was a child, I saw God,
I saw angels;
I watched the mysteries of the higher and lower worlds. I thought all men saw the same. At last I
realized that they did not see....

—SHAMS OF TABRIZ

Rezistența opusă iertării

Rezistența opusă iertării este un atașament față de nevoia de a avea dreptate. Michael Bernard Beckwith- Eliberarea spirituală

luni, 5 decembrie 2016

Jerome K. Jerome- Three in a Boat (To Say Nothing of the Dog)



Image result for three in a boatYou might think it's an afternoon's read, but as great humour should be, you'll discover this book touches on some common experiences that will remind us how human we all are, how much we are all the same and how ridiculous we all (sometimes:) are.

 It's interesting how a funny, appearently easy book can contain such eloquently beautiful passages...

 ”Slowly the golden memory of the dead sun fades from the hearts of the cold, sad clouds. Silent, like sorrowing children, the birds have ceased their song, and only the moorhen's plaintive cry and the harsh croak of the corncrake stirs the awed hush around the couch of waters, where the dying day breathes out her last.


Photo credit: Victorian Literature



From the dim woods on either bank, Night's ghostly army, the grey shadows, creep out with noiseless tread to chase away the lingering rear- guard of the light, and pass, with noiseless, unseen feet, above the waving river-grass, and through the sighing rushes; and Night, upon her sombre throne, folds her black wings above the darkening world, and, from her phantom palace, lit by the pale stars, reigns in stillness.
Then we run our little boat into some quiet nook, and the tent is pitched, and the frugal supper cooked and eaten. Then the big pipes are filled and lighted, and the pleasant chat goes round in musical undertone; while, in the pauses of our talk, the river, playing round the boat, prattles strange old tales and secrets, sings low the old child's song that it has sung so many thousand years - will sing so many thousand years to come, before its voice grows harsh and old - a song that we, who have learnt to love its changing face, who have so often nestled on its yielding bosom, think, somehow, we understand, though we could not tell you in mere words the story that we listen to.
And we sit there, by its margin, while the moon, who loves it too, stoops down to kiss it with a sister's kiss, and throws her silver arms around it clingingly; and we watch it as it flows, ever singing, ever whispering, out to meet its king, the sea - till our voices die away in silence, and the pipes go out - till we, common-place, everyday young men enough, feel strangely full of thoughts, half sad, half sweet, and do not care or want to speak - till we laugh, and, rising, knock the ashes from our burnt-out pipes, and say "Good-night," and, lulled by the lapping water and the rustling trees, we fall asleep beneath the great, still stars, and dream that the world is young again - young and sweet as she used to be ere the centuries of fret and care had furrowed her fair face, ere her children's sins and follies had made old her loving heart - sweet as she was in those bygone days when, a new-made mother, she nursed us, her children, upon her own deep breast - ere the wiles of painted civilization had lured us away from her fond arms, and the poisoned sneers of artificiality had made us ashamed of the simple life we led with her, and the simple, stately home where mankind was born so many thousands years ago.”

duminică, 20 noiembrie 2016

The other

  1.  What are the messages you received at home about “the other”? Were you encouraged to get to know them? Or were you taught to distrust or ignore them?
  2. Did you grow up in a neighborhood that was primarily racially, ethnically, economically, religiously homogenous? Or did you grow up in a mixed neighborhood, as you see it?
  3. Today, are you more likely to emphasize how others are similar to you, or how you may be different?
  4. What has been your experience when you’re in the minority, vs. when you’re in the majority?
How do these questions make you feel? Are the answers what you expected?
Esther Perel 
http://www.estherperel.com/how-to-address-cross-cultural-differences/

vineri, 18 noiembrie 2016

Lotus Therm Spa and Luxury Resort



Every now and then everybody should get the royal treatment. One way to do that is to check in at Lotus Therm Spa and Luxury Resort at Băile Felix. Here you can get lost in a labyrinth of great taste interiors, with fancy details that can make all the difference. And if you’re here for a Conference, as I was, after a rich day full of interesting and emotional conversations about the future of Europe, you can dine at the generous restaurant or just decide to first sink in one of the many warm pools, or jacuzzi’s or forget about all tension on a massage table under the touch of magic hands. Just take a look…

… and then take my advice :)

Practice... makes perfect



Do something! Visualize just a little. Act with faith just a little. Explore your beliefs just a little. Manifest a little something; a phone call, a compliment, a flower, whatever. Expect a little miracle. Expect a little help. Expect it to be easy.
Tallyho,
    The Universe